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Dating Online? Watch that Ad!   by John Gandhi
New to online dating? You need to have a well-written personal ad or dating profile. ... Read more
Shy Guy Wants to Know How to Get the Girls   by Philippa Courtney
I'm not ugly. I'm not a geek. I'm just clumsy and shy around females. I've always been shy around... Read more
She's Breaking Up With Her Boyfriend -- So When Do I Make My Move?   by Doc Love
I want to stand a chance with Kristen if she does indeed end up breaking off with her boyfriend... Read more
How To Attract, Date And Seduce Beautiful Women   by Tiffany Taylor
The online dating scene requires more honesty than you'd normally find in a singles bar on a Friday... Read more
A Time for Temporary Lovers   by Philippa Courtney
Is it OK to just date someone until your Mr. Right comes along? ... Read more
How to Catch the Impossible Woman   by Doc Love
For the last six months I've been dating a beautiful flight attendant who works for a Japanese airline. ... Read more
Why Phone Numbers Are Bad   by Anthony Berger
Why do I insist on getting involved in one-night stands as opposed to dating? ... Read more
The 3 Things To Do To Get Women Wet in 5 Minutes   by Anthony Berger
Ever wondered how to sexually stimulate a woman by simply talking to her in the right way? ... Read more
How To Have Great Sex   by Anthony Berger
The first 10 of 40 rules on what not to do during sex. ... Read more
Should You Ever Just Tell Her Off?   by Doc Love
I have a question about how to end a date that's going in the dumper. ... Read more
How We Affect Each Other's Lives   by Rinatta Paries
Do you know what kind of an affect you have on other people? It is important to the happiness of ... Read more
Is It Cheating?   by Philippa Courtney
Do you think a guy who looks at porn on the Internet is cheating? What's wrong with that? ... Read more
The Five Signs that She's Interested in You   by Doc Love
The top five signs to tell if a woman is attracted to you when you're first spending time with her... Read more
What's Your Communication Style?   by Rinatta Paries
Is your approach to communication well-matched with your current partner or with people you tend... Read more
Can You Ever Pressure a Woman into Loving You?   by Doc Love
A guy can be as tough as a tank on the outside and still be a lost little whimpering boy on the inside... Read more
Getting Your Sex Appeal Back   by Philippa Courtney
My friends say I’m just in slump... How can I turn things around and attract an exciting guy?... Read more
What Are the Top 5 'First Date' Blunders That Men Make?   by Doc Love
I'm going to make it real simple. Here are the top 5 things that you should never do on a first date. ... Read more
Why Would Any Woman Choose a "Doughboy" over Mr. Buff?   by Doc Love
Why would a woman with great looks stay with a lumpy guy with no elegance or sexual appeal? ... Read more
Hot Night — Cold Feet   by Philippa Courtney
Right after we've had an incredibly romantic time together, he seems to get cold feet and backs off... Read more
Do Compliments Raise Interest Level?   by Doc Love
My date gave me at least ten compliments during the course of the evening, on all aspects of my... Read more
How to Attract True Love   by Rinatta Paries
Nine tips that will help you attract the kind of long-term, healthy relationship you've always wanted. ... Read more
How to Ask Women Out   by Philippa Courtney
I don't know what to say, how to ask them out and I'm tired of being scared and lonely. ... Read more
How to Stop Being Single   by Rinatta Paries
Are you single and not dating anyone? How do you date if you have trouble finding people to date? ... Read more
Top Ten Questions to Ask Your Date   by Doc Love
Ten questions which will keep her on her toes and also garner you some very useful information. ... Read more
Who Pays for Dinner?   by Philippa Courtney
I have some strong opinions on the whole subject of sharing expenses when you are dating. ... Read more
The Top Rated Places to Meet Women   by Doc Love
Here are, in my opinion, the four BEST places to meet women with virtually NO competition. ... Read more
What Men and Women Want, Part 1   by Rinatta Paries
I have discovered a stark contrast between what each sex thinks the opposite sex wants from them, and what the opposite sex really does want. ... Read more
What Men and Women Want, Part 2   by Rinatta Paries
This week I'll reveal what women want from a man in order to build a great relationship... Read more
What Men and Women Want, Part 3   by Rinatta Paries
So what's going on here? Why does each gender have a skewed view of what the other wants? ... Read more
Don't Let Her 'Dis' You   by Doc Love
Early this month I had a date of which I really don't know what to think. This girl, Renee, had been... Read more
Weighing-In Online   by Philippa Courtney
My question is how do you find out how much they weigh and what age they are without making... Read more
Principles of Being a Love Magnet, Part 1   by Rinatta Paries
Attracting and getting love does not have to be a struggle. Really. You can become the person... Read more
Principles of Being a Love Magnet, Part 2   by Rinatta Paries
Here are the next 10 principles of being a love magnet.... Read more
Principles of Being a Love Magnet, Part 3   by Rinatta Paries
The final 10 principles of being a love magnet, followed by some principles submitted by our readers... Read more
Online Connection — Off Line Intimacy   by Philippa Courtney
I recently met a man using an Internet match site. We got together and hit it off right away. ... Read more
Woman's Need For Verbal Acknowledgement   by Doc Love
Here is a simple truth I've discovered about women that, if practiced, will keep the romance alive... Read more
Making Online Romance Real   by Philippa Courtney
When is it time to meet someone in person when you've been e-mailing each other for some time?... Read more
One Powerful Technique For Overcoming The Fear Of Rejection   by Doc Love
I met this girl a few weeks back... but I was just way too scared to even ask her out. ... Read more
How to Find Your Perfect One   by Philippa Courtney
Dear Philippa, I am writing to thank you for helping me meet a wonderful woman. ... Read more
Only Women Test   by Doc Love
Why do women who are happy stir things up and start arguments for no rational reason? ... Read more
How Do I Stay Loyal to my Online Lover-to-be?   by Philippa Courtney
I'm having trouble knowing how to transition from an Internet to a real-life relationship ... Read more
When She Shoots You Down, Don't React Negatively   by Doc Love
Doc, can you shed a little more light on this particular form of male rudeness? ... Read more
Controlling Men Turn Women Off   by Philippa Courtney
I got the feeling she was testing me because her last boyfriend was extremely controlling. ... Read more
The Pitfalls Of Group Dates   by Doc Love
Two days later she called me and asked me if I wanted to join her and her friends that night... Read more
How To Read A Woman's Interest Level   by Doc Love
You say it is important to determine a woman's Interest Level at the beginning and that she should... Read more
Ten Things You Never Knew About Relationships   by Rinatta Paries
The 10 things that are realized when you finally make the shift to being able to attract... Read more
How To Not Pick Up Women   by Doc Love
What motivates a man to speak to a woman in a sexually loaded, leering, predatory kind of way? ... Read more
Seeing Good or Available Partners   by Rinatta Paries
Singles frequently complain to me that ... "There are no good men or women left."... Read more
Don't Give Up!   by Doc Love
It's damn hard to find an attractive, intelligent woman with a great personality who also has... Read more
He's the One — But I Want to Run   by Philippa Courtney
I met the man of my dreams. The problem is that I don't miss him when we're not together and... Read more
How to Write an Online Personal Ad  by Rinatta Paries
Online personal ads are a great way to meet a lot of interesting people quickly. ... Read more
How Can I Tell Which Guy I Should Date?  by Philippa Courtney
It's been a while since I've dated anyone and I've just started meeting some men from the Internet.... Read more
The Pitfalls Of Dating A Married Woman  by Doc Love
Dear Doc, I am currently in a relationship with a married woman. I have known her for eight years... Read more
Strategies for Dating  by Rinatta Paries
Here, I will share my list of ten strategies for successful dating... Read more
Guys Just Want Me for Sex  by Philippa Courtney
Dear Philippa, within hours of meeting guys they want to jump right into bed with me... Read more
How To Handle Two Girlfriends  by Doc Love
She has the ability to transition from my sweet little girl to super bitch in zero seconds flat. ... Read more
Personal Freedom  by Rinatta Paries
Many singles express concern about losing their personal freedom once they get into a relationship.... Read more
How Do I Make Her Mine?  by Philippa Courtney
I have met a wonderful woman who has just come out of a divorce ... but how do I approach her?... Read more
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